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Sophia Love – Welcome Home – 20 February 2015

SophiaLoveNewAnd so this Quest continues…and my life conspires to be sure maximum understanding results.  A large and unexpected curve ball threw itself into the mix at lightning speed, whispering – “You think you can just ignore me?  They don’t call me an addiction for nothing!  Get a load of this!”In an unexpected moment I was looking at everything I have come to believe and faced with a decision that felt paramount.  Would I succumb to self-destructive luxuries?  Would I choose something new? Continue reading

Sophia Love – This Spiral Journey – 18 February 2015

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While attempting to write this entry for today, the second day of our Love Quest, there’s been a whirlwind of life swirling in to delay, well, everything.  Please forgive the lateness of this post.

So what is an addiction?  It is anything from your physical life that seems to have the upper hand.  It is a physical process, being addicted.  Those parts of us that are expressed non-physically have no addictions.  It could even be said that without them (addictions), this 3D world as we know it to be, would cease to exist. Continue reading

Sophia Love – Off/On The wagon? – 18 February 2015

SophiaLoveNewThis is not a Quest I imagined.  It is a trip already taken, a beginning.  This is a spiral journey – once you “arrive” you see other destinations through the window.  These are places you must now go.  There is no turning back.  There is only a returning.

Each path taken brings you deeper into truth; each step closer not to an end, but to another start.  We are starting over.

How this looks through human eyes can be disorienting.  Logically, as we’ve been taking these Quests since 2011, and alive much longer than that, it would seem that we’d “get it” by now.  Life is not meant to be logical. Continue reading

Sophia Love – The Hope Of The World – 12 February 2015

SophiaLoveNewA friend of mine once described her grandfather as someone who “treated everyone as someone special, from the grocery clerk to the governor.”  He spent his last days on earth with her family.  He knew he was going to transition, and called it “the next grand adventure.”  He died peacefully and surrounded by loved ones – just the way he had lived.

We are starving for attention, looking for love and desperate to connect – while avoiding eye contact, staying home and watching each other on our phones and tablets.  We can’t get there from here.  This Esther Hicks clip talks about the necessity of being present with your whole heart before things can manifest. This is how creation works.
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Sophia Love – Thy Will Be Done – 10 February 2015

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There is melancholy to this day; not sadness, but quiet contemplation.  The prisoners are waking up, wondering why there are bars.  We don’t seem angry, just finished.  Its early morning, not yet 9:00 AM.  I’ve been 3 places so far today, and in each there was a hush, almost self-absorption.  This song was playing in the coffee shop as I entered…followed by this one… Perfect. Continue reading

Sophia Love – ABC……GOD – 5 February 2015

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What’s stewing and brewing in this head lately is this:

If

A. The being called “god” has no greater power than I.

And

B. I am the Master of my life, responsible for all of it.

Then

C. What is the difference between a being who imagines itself to be god and a being who imagines itself to be human? Continue reading

Sophia Love – G.R.A.L. – 29 January 2015

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It feels as if everyone I’ve ever been, in every lifetime, has settled in, pulled up a chair and is leaning forward with their hands on their knees, watching, waiting and expecting the show to start. They are all smiling, knowingly…  (Is this integration?) I don’t have the heart to tell them that the show has not even been picked, let alone begun.

What has been chosen (by the one writing this post) is perhaps the least effective; tension mixed with a bit of apprehension all rolled into illness.  Self-absorption rules the day, and even typing these words feels like an extraordinary effort.  So what gives? Continue reading

Sophia Love – Realization – 24 January 2015

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These Quests began in 2011.  They began with about 8 of us I think (1/2 of which were family) and at one point there were 5,000 of us joining the journey!  Then, Face Book decided that couldn’t happen.  The Quests continued though, from a blog that was started in order to do so, at: www.sophialove.org.  Lots of things have changed since then except for one – our search for palpable, non-stop unconditional love.  I’ve been told that humans are the most exciting beings to incarnate as, because of our extreme emotions.  We fill up our hearts to overflowing and then break them with a passion and enthusiasm unmatched in the cosmos. We are unique and incredible.In other Quests there’s been a conclusion, a discovery, a settling at least.  Not so this time.  The energy of 2015 has brought me to a deep examining of us.  What is our perpetual insistence on reaching for something beyond ourselves for fulfillment or answers?
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Sophia Love – Blame – Recognition – Awareness – ( 3 Part) – 23 January 2015

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Today, move into the place you’d like to live.  Not a physical place but an emotional one.  This place is designed by your intentions.  There are some things you’ll have to leave at the door.The most difficult to abandon may be blame.  It used to fit in your back pocket; available to pull out at any moment.  There’s no room for it in your new place.  It is large, pointy and unwieldy; it won’t fit.

We are One.  This idea is difficult to wrap your head completely around. It only works without judgment.  Understand that judgment is not the same as opinion.  There will always be people, attitudes, colors, foods, smells and activities you like more than others.  You will prefer to “hang with” your favorites.  That doesn’t mean the other colors, attitudes, people, foods, smells and activities are wrong.  They are not.  It is only that they are different than your favorites.  Some things are just not your favorite.  That’s okay.  They are still perfectly acceptable. Easy to unravel when you think of it that way…  It makes sense.

Now, think about the last time you were hurt, or any time when you were clearly and undeniably hurt, regardless of when.  Stick to emotional hurts for this discussion.  Put yourself there and remember the moment you felt wronged, misunderstood, mistreated, abused even.  Sense the blame rise in you and feel your body react.  Now, step away and watch.  Notice how in that moment you’ve become powerless.  This “other” has taken control of your world momentarily.  You are surrounded in judgment and it feels intense.  Is this a place you would choose to move into?

Lovingly and gently, tell yourself about the place you’d rather be. There are still opinions and favorites in this place, but they exist without judgment.  You may be laughing there or you might by joking around and playing in this place, yet whatever you are doing, you are doing it consciously. There is no “wrong” terrible enough to take your power away.  Nothing is worth your sovereignty.  Blame is a dependent condition.  You cannot be sovereign while believing it is real.

If you and I are One, than blame is an illusion; I am only accusing myself and pretending it’s you.  Whatever righteous indignation I feel as a result won’t last and comes with a host of additional physical responses I’d rather avoid.

You’ll have to decide what you are willing to give up.  It will come to a moment of truth.  That’s what it takes to love without condition.  It takes a release of finger pointing, judging, “tsk-ing”, complaining and blaming.  Each of these is rooted in fear.  Your new place only has room for Agape.

You may be immersed in habits of judgment and reasons for unhappiness.  All habits can be changed, once you make the decision to do so.

Today you’ll have to choose how much your addiction to blame or judgment is worth.  You can choose again, gradually, tenderly and lovingly.  This is not about whose fault anything is, it’s about the creation of a new basis for your relationships and your life.

This place, the one we are entering, is based on unconditional love.  It is inclusive.  It is forgiving.  It is like being embraced in complete acceptance.

This is the place of your most cherished dreams.  The door is not locked.  You can enter any time.  Some of us are already there.  Welcome home.  We are the Ones we’ve been waiting for.

See you tomorrow.

~Sophia
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Recognition
This is a journey into your very core.  The answers are not found in sound bites, songs or twelve step programs.  The resonation of truth will be felt privately and in unexpected moments.  This will arrive unannounced.  The trouble with writing here a description of it is twofold.  One is that it springs from my own bias and two is that every attempt at writing it down is colored by my own effort to say so eloquently.  Our answer is not found in a perfect moment or a single Quest or a work of literature.  Our answer can only be felt.

What does it feel like?  It feels like an absence of expectations.  Not an absence as if there is only emptiness left, but as if we’ve made no demands on the behavior of another.  The ability to live that way will grow from a life lived without demands on you.  Not a life without hopes, goals, aspirations, plans or dreams, no.  A full life of all those things! But as well – a life without feelings of bitter disappointment when situations and people show up otherwise.

What someone does or does not do has nothing to do with how much they love you.  What someone does or doesn’t is an announcement of how they are feeling about themselves at the moment.

You are the whole point.  You can’t be the answers to anyone’s prayers, the only love of someone’s life or anyone’s savior.  You can be the answer to your own prayers, the love of your own life and your personal savior.  What this means is that once you let go of self-judgment and criteria for perfection – you are free to love without restriction.

This freedom comes with recognition of all of your parts.  We spoke yesterday about uncovering the uncomfortable ones.  Discomfort is part of life here in 3D; part of the contrast.  It is a repeated unhappiness, one that feels all too familiar, that has stopped your liberation.  That’s the discomfort referred to here.  Why is it so hard to see what causes this “really not fun” emotion?  It is hiding so well that it shows up without announcement or discussion.  It’s like the color of your eyes, a part that looks that way every time you are reflected.  Every time, no matter who is holding the mirror, your eyes look the same.

This reaction/feeling is not a permanent reflection.  No, it is something you built years ago, as a child or young adult.  It can be changed.  If you want a better shot at self-love, it’ll have to be.  It’s not a bad thing, it’s just not useful.  When you built it, you were using all the information and ability you had at the time.  You know more now.

So let’s say you recognize the cycle; the feeling is all too familiar and it feels “bad”. If you’ve listened to Esther Hicks, she talks about our Internal Emotional Guidance System as being our feelings.  A bad feeling doesn’t mean something is wrong out there – it means something is wrong with how you FEEL       inside about what’s out there.  It’s all you, all the time.

Once recognition happens, congratulate yourself!  You’ve found the culprit and drawn him/her out in the open.  Now, just love.  There is no rejection in Agape.  Oneness includes every aspect, word, emotion and fractal we are.

This will not be easy.  Old habits are hard to break and we humans have addictive personalities.  It will be easier when you envision what’s waiting for you at the other side of this addiction: choice, fearless love and an open heart.  Once you become the love of your life, the rest of us will join you.  You’ll see.  It’ll be amazing.  We are the One’s we’ve been waiting for.

See you tomorrow.

~Sophia

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Awareness
This is a Love Quest.  Ultimately we are trying to feel better.  We’ve talked about what we need to leave behind, but not how.  Here comes the tricky part.  It may not be intuitive.

Step way back and look at the big picture.  It includes the whole of what you are.  Stepping into this new place is not difficult – it is different.  You haven’t operated this way previously.  You’ve been mesmerized by 3D YOU.  This is the you that was born to the parents you have now; the you that has lived the life you know to be yours today.

The big picture refers to this life as well as every other fractal/lifetime.  You may not remember the others consciously, but you can feel them.  They are the parts of you who have been everyone and felt everything else.  This new paradigm allows access to all of your parts.  You are One.

As One, there is no “other”.  None to blame.  None to hurt.  None to fail.  None to disappoint.  None to be afraid of.  None to have expectations of.  None to owe.  All of these “others” can be left behind.

It is only with awareness of our totality that Oneness is possible. It is only without dependence that sovereignty is accessed. Awareness is what will transform every thought of lack, fear, blame, doubt or expectation. There is no pat answer.

You are striving for the ultimate – pure creation.  This will grow out of an understanding that always, always you are taken care of and cherished, honored and respected.  With each creation episode you are living the ultimate – life.  It’s all life.  There truly is no good or bad, here or anywhere.  Only your attachment to pain makes it so.

There is no reason for it but experience.  You have been looking for reasons for the pain.  There are none.  Those you’ve “blamed” for inflicting it upon you are searching for the same thing.  We all are.

What will you do without blame?  I can tell you this.  The primary beneficiary of a blameless heart is you.  Unconditional acceptance eventually leads to continuous gratitude.  A day immersed in gratitude in gratitude is a very good day.

Feel good about yourself.  You have come so very far and have felt so many things to get to this place today.  There is no other who compares to you.  You are the One you’ve been waiting for.

See you tomorrow.

Thank you.

~Sophia
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Sophia Love – Uncovering – 20 January 2015

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It is 2015 and we are at complete choice now.  No longer are we weighed down by habits of density and separation; we are entering a new paradigm.  We can do so unencumbered by pain, loss, frustration and isolation.  This is accomplished with awareness, recognition and determination.  Our Quest begins today with recognition. Continue reading