I didn’t know I was going to do an article on love so close to Valentine’s Day, and I must say it actually isn’t on purpose. But I believe I tune into the group consciousness when writing these articles, and what is on the group “mind”. So, of course, different insights have come through this week about love…specifically love in relationship. And oh, I feel the fire this article may bring up in people. If that happens, then please see this as a means for something to clear. Of course, these are my thoughts and feelings and I own them as that. Whatever resonates, take it with you, and what doesn’t, discard.
When we begin to open our heart deeper and deeper to love someone, I believe there are different phases. There is phase one, where we must get past obvious fears of the human condition: fear of abandonment, trust issues, and vulnerability. When we stay present with what comes up with our loved ones, and continue to examine, “where is what is happening about me and my wounds?”, we make it through phase one with flying colors!